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Oak Harbor, Washington, United States
Jan 10, 2014
I'm kind, but not a push over. I think independently, and don't just regurgitate cliches. I'm not perfect, but I try to be and apologize and make reasonable restitution when I make a mistake. I'm forgiving, but I don't force it upon anyone. I have good/fair standards for my community, and am not afraid of a little healthy conflict. I don't let fear guide my actions. I think critically, so I don't go around blindly trusting anyone simply based on status (pastor, professor, author). I'm independent so I can overcome my own problems, but I do appreciate the time it saves when a loved one encourages me past the temptations of self doubt. I'm honest, but I know not to unnecessarily volunteer intimate private information about myself and others. I'm open minded, but not so much that I'm indecisive. If something is important to someone, I try hard to make sure I accurately understand someone before I disagree. I like to socialize with anyone, because I find everyone interesting in one way or another. I don't judge based on appearance, because what is underneath is often the exact opposite of what I assume. I like to help anyone, but within reason and without loving them more than I love myself. I want love, but I'm not desperate and I don't sacrifice good principles for it.
I would appreciate a friend who knows how to communicate where their boundary issue are rather than leaving me to fumble around trying to figure it out. I respect peoples decisions. Just please don't burn down the connections we had when leading up to that point, otherwise I can feel like you never really cared at all.
I'll tell you later
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