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Sherwood, Oregon, United States
May 20, 2015
(If you're over 30, please, don't bother viewing my page, you're too old for me to have a relationship. I hoped that would be common knowledge but I only get views from those older than 30.)
Hi, my name is Tahnie :) I was raised to love God and put Him first to the best of my ability. I've been an SDA since 2000. I don't read the Bible or pray as much as I should but I try. My favorite scripture is the one where God promises to make our hearts turn from stone to flesh - can't recall the exact scripture details, I'm afraid. I don't always show love but that's not because I'm cold-hearted - I'm just troubled. I am learning to love others as God loves.
I was born prematurely at 1 pound 6 ounces. I weighed the same as a loaf of bread. My father's wedding ring fit all the way up my shoulder blade. In the womb, I was supposed to die. My mom's body treated me as a virus; having already rejecting 10 other fetuses. The umbilical cord was wrapped around my neck and there was little to no amniotic fluid in the womb. I was born through C-section. I had less than 5% chance of even living and a group of doctors were puzzled. As an infant, I once survived a tornado that took up the house next to mine and it was so close to my window where my crib was but only cracked my widow. At an early age, I was considered to have an IQ of 63. In reality, I actually had Asperger's Syndrome. Since 7th grade, I've been yearning for purpose and love.
I like to write, play video games, and browse the internet. Of course, I also enjoy listening to music and reading the Word. I have been under a lot of grief because my father died about two years ago in April of 2013. It's been very difficult. He died days before his birthday and on the 10th anniversary with my step mom.
I am a complicated gal who struggles in friendships and relationships due to Autism.
I can be very deep and creative. I'm stubborn and not afraid to speak my mind - though, that can get me into trouble. I like warrior type fictional characters like Knights, Vikings, and ninjas. Coloring fuzzy posters are therapeutic :D I am a cat lover at heart but I have a special place in there for dogs like Huskies and Dachshunds. I'm a music lover and enjoy almost anything that sounds pleasant to my ears - even if it's a bit unorthodox. While I aspire to maybe one day become a drummer, the piano might be more my thing. I don't play an instrument or sing but I have good rhythm. I do fangirl over my favorite fictional characters that I have huge crushes on but believe me, it's no different than a celebrity crush. However, I prefer a real guy over a fictional one.
I am currently not doing much with my life as I still have a lot to consider. I'm in a program for the Department of Vocational Rehabilitation that is supposed to help me find a job. Although, due to social incapabilities, I might have to either go to school or do some volunteer work or both first. Of course, before I can work, I need counseling as well; especially for my anger and grief. I do have plans and hopes, God willing, to make video games that glorify God. I care little for the money involved, only to reach out to those around me.
Things I could not live without: God, whoever my future One will be, Sonic, Halo, Skyrim, freedom to be creative, writing, art, YouTube, Vine, cats, Star Trek, Gargoyles, The Lion King, my mom, lolcats, werewolves, nighttime, roses, tacos, chocolate milk, Reese's, music, IMVU, animals, creatures, and plushies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about my impish angel of a Russian Blue named Boaz :3, my daddy, but most of all, meeting the man of my dreams. He will look me in the eye, with the love of God and the fire of a warrior in his heart, tell me he loves me as he holds me so close that we are as one and actually means it. I'd never be abandoned again nor lied to again. He would know me better than I know myself and know God like a friend. He would know how to treat me.
If you are interested in me as a potential mate, here are some things to know first:
1. While it's not required to be an SDA, I need a man who believes as I do (and my beliefs are that of SDA) or it will be unequal and I believe heavily in equality. For those who know the term, the man of my dreams and I need to be 'equally yoked'. You need to have a relationship with God and even if you don't or are attempting one, you ought to know what that means. If you don't, well...not sure if you should consider me as a potential mate, then.
2. There is a thing that I've learned on other sites called the Color Code. I suppose it's the dating equivalent to the Horoscope. Colors include red, blue, white, and yellow. Red: “The Power-Wielders”: Core motive = Power, or the ability to move from "a" to "b" as efficiently as possible.
Blue: “The Do-Gooders”: Core motive = Intimacy, this doesn't mean sex, but rather the need to connect, share feelings, and build relationships with others.
White: “The Peacekeepers”: Core motive = Peace, or calmness even in the midst of conflict or clarity in the midst of confusion.
Yellow: “The Fun-Lovers”: Core motive = Fun, or always enjoying the moment.
I'm blue and I want a blue man. If you want to know your color, I suggest this website: https://www.colorcode.com/choose_personality_test/ I apologize about the payment thing, that isn't required in this case xD If you want to, that's your decision :P
3. I firmly believe in something called the Five Love Languages. It's something that I hold dear; it really shows how to love. I am bilingual, however. My main ones are Words of Affirmation (compliments) and Quality Time. Physical Touch (More than just sex, cuddling or holding hands counts too), Acts of Service (Doing things for someone like taking out the trash if they tired), and Gifts are nice too, but they don't fill my love meter as much.
Compliments are needed to know I am worth something. Words mean a lot, even more than actions if not as much to me. I've had a lot of scars from hurtful words and my One knows only healing words.
I like spending time with people when I trust them. If you've earned my trust, I'll never stop wanting to spend time with you. With my One. I hate goodbyes.
I need someone who respects my views on sex and would touch me the way I am okay with - which is innocently. I like gentle but firm men. Soft and short kisses and embracing hugs are amazing. I'm not ever going to make out or French kissing so that is never a discussion.
I like the idea of coming home and seeing someone doing something for me that I never expected though I could have done it myself. Knowing that my One knows when I'm stressed and helps me out is awesome.
Gifts aren't as important to me as the others but when a guy knows what I like I'm all smiles. But I hate surprises. So expect me opening presents alone.
Knowing my love language is important for any man interested in me so that my "love tank" is filled. I can't do the same for my man if he doesn't know his; especially if he's bilingual. There's a test you can take to find yours (may help you even if I'm not your One): http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/ (This doesn't require money, I promise xD) I take this and the color code test very seriously (though that one not as seriously as the 5LL), so if you think the test is a waste of your time, you might be a waste of my time because I am determined to find the right guy and if you think love is a waste of time, you ought not to be lookin' here (or at least my way, anyway). I'd wager you'd be looking for something short and worthless if you thought the 5LL were a joke. You know, like a one night stand :/ which is depressing if you're a true SDA. Love is forever, like Jesus. Not short and cheap. I'm sorry if I seem cold but a guy I know said he had an interest in me but thought the test was dumb. I don't see what he wants with me if he wants love and ignores the Five LOVE Languages.
4. Those previous two things are important, also know that in order to pique my interest, you got to know how to treat a lady. And if you have a past of deceit, I might have a difficult time trusting you. Also, pardon my stubbornness, it's who I am.
5. If you are a perv or have problems with eroticy, hit the road. If you're not willing to withdraw from what consumes you, you're not worth my time. I have no interest in sex, never have, probably never will. Love outside the shallow stuff is better!
6. If you likes dogs (preferably small or medium size dogs) that's fine but you need to at least tolerate cats. I won't demand you to be a cat lover. lol
7. I'm not wanting to date a genius but if you can keep up with me in intelligence and conversation, you are pretty much attractive to me haha
These are bonuses that are not required: If you are a drummer, a surfer, a cat person, can speak with a Russian Accent.
I am seeking an SDA celibate color-coded blue loving 20-25 year old guy. There are many attributes that I long for in a guy. One of them being an Adventist. The other being celibate; it is my oath to Jesus in thanks for His sacrifice. I long to be with someone who loves me for me, who will not leave because of what I believe or what I do. I yearn to have someone who makes me feel special and the only one for them.
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4' 7" (140 cm) or below
85 lbs (38.6 Kg)
Sense of humor:
Campy: The cheesier, the better, Goofy: Cartoons still crack me up, Clever: Nothing's better than a quick-witted comeback, Obscure: I'm usually the only one laughing, Dry / Sarcastic: I'm not bitter because I'm single. Quite the opposite
Meat and Potatoes, Junk Food, Fast Food
Live with parents
My Own boss
I'm a gamer girl :D At least, I'd like to think of myself as one. I also like to write fanfictions and create YouTube videos.
Favorite Food: Tacos. chocolate milk, pretzels, cheez-its, Reese's, celery and carrots with salt, green apples, mashed potatoes with gravy, spaghetti, steak, beef jerky, Subwa sandwiches, KFC chicken and Jojos, cheeseburgers, powdered jelly filled doughnuts.
Favorite Color: Burgundy Red, Sonic blue, Covenant Purple, dark Emerald green.
Favorite Game: Sonic, Halo, Skyrim, the Sims, Spyro, Spore, Angry Birds.
Favorite Movie: The Lion King, /wreck-It Ralph, Big Hero 6, How To Train Your Dragon. Wall-E, Alvin and the Chipmunks, Madagascar, Skycrawlers, The Princess Bride, Catwoman, Chronicles of Narnia, Alien movies.
Favorite TV Show: Star Trek: Next Generation, Merlin, American Idol, The Biggest Loser, Mythbusters, Animal Planet's Funniest Animals, The Most Extreme, Everybody Loves Raymond.
Favorite Anime: Naruto, Rurouni Kenshin, Teen Titans, Hamtaro, The Last Airbender, Dance in the Vampire Bund
Favorite Cartoon: Gargoyles, Blue's Clues, Ed Edd N Eddy, CatDog, Looney Tunes (typically Bugs Bunny). Kim Possible, Kids Next Door, Veggietales.
Favorite Band: Disturbed, Volbeat, Dragonforce, Linkin Park, Backstreet Boys, N*SYNC, Matchbox 20, Simple Plan, Evanescence, Savage Garden, Incubus, Creed, Amon Amarth. Breaking Benjamin, Fall Out Boy, Trapt, Nirvana, Eiffel 65, Daft Punk, Nickelback, Device, Skillet, The Black Eed Peas, Crush 40, Third Day, Kutless, Newsboys.
Favorite Singer: Michael Jackson. Avril Lavigne, Ke$ha, Lady Gaga, Johnny Lang, Rihanna, Chris Brown, Rob Thomas, Colton Dixon,.
Favorite Misc: Werewolves, Lolcats, Youtube, Russian accents, animals, mythological and fictional creatures, crossover fanfictions, drums, plushies
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